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How To NOT Be Boring | 5 Tips To Be More Interesting

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4 Conversation Starters: http://www.iamalpham.com/index.php/topics/small-talk-tips-conversation-starters/ My Website: http://www.iamalpham.com My Services and Products: http://www.aaronmarino.com Best Hair Product: http://www.peteandpedro.com Best Grooming Tool: http://amzn.to/1YrOnCJ Tiege Hanley Skin Care: http://www.tiege.com All promotion and advertising inquiries: [email protected] Alpha M. App: http://www.alphamapp.com/ Best Hair Product: http://www.peteandpedro.com Best Grooming Tool: http://amzn.to/1YrOnCJ Free Hairstyle E-Book: http://www.iamalpham.com/ezine Pete & Pedro: http://www.peteandpedro.com FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/IAmAlphaM Twitter: https://twitter.com/IAmAlphaM My Businesses: Alpha M. Consulting: http://www.aaronmarino.com i am alpha m: http://www.iamalpham.com Pete & Pedro: http://www.peteandpedro.com Squirrel Lab: http://www.squirrellab.com MENfluential Media: http://www.menfluential.com StyleCon: http://www.mensstylecon.com Tiege Hanley: http://www.Tiege.com The other day, Alpha received an email from a viewer questioning whether he's boring or not. He reads the email. In this video men's style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of IAmAlphaM, AaronMarino, and Pete & Pedro talks about being too nice and being boring. Girls don't think you're 'too nice'. She just wasn't attracted to you. Alpha adds that being boring is an epidemic of massive proportion. We are replacing experiences and learning with technology time sucks, killing time, and entertainment. Steps to Be Less Boring 1. Boring is a state of mind - people aren't boring. We feel boring. Proclaim instead that we are awesome, amazing, and interesting. 2. Be well rounded as an individual - don't just focus on one or two specific things. You need to seek out inspiration and education from the world around you. Don't isolate yourself. Learn about the world around you. Seek knowledge. 3. Try something new every single day - routine and interesting's kryptonite. Try new food, take a different route to work, listen to something else in the car... break the ruts! 4. Seek and engage someone new in a conversation every day - don't stay in a social bubble, interacting with the same people. Learn from new people to enhance your life experiences and interpersonal relationships. 5. Constantly seek self improvement - experiences create life! Try new things!
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Juanderful Vlogs (2 days ago)
I will be super honest with you! At first glance, I thought you were another douchebag! But I come clean to sincerely apologize to you! I can’t stop watching and listening everything you say! I subscribe after two videos and, although, you sell stuff, that shows me that you practice what you preach! Thank you! I truly needed this kind of videos! Kudos and keep going up and forth!
No you (4 days ago)
Video starts 2:00
Georgie-boy1533 (4 days ago)
From what i have learned its not that ur too nice or ur to boring ,its the green paper u got in ur pocket
SURDINHO JR (5 days ago)
DUDE YOU COULD LITERALLY MAKE YOUR OWN SHOW OR BE IN THE FUNNIEST 🤣 COMEDY SHOW EVER 😂😂😂😂😂🤘🏿rock on dude
giving up (5 days ago)
Im sure you get this a lot, but I love that spot on your eye! Very unique and not boring!
siYo FixeD (7 days ago)
bro, there's a difference between experiencing new things and having a quiet personality.
Wizdumb (8 days ago)
Alpha are you theee voice from drama island???????
ツLory (9 days ago)
What is it on your eye?
Raju (11 days ago)
That was helpful for a lot of people.
Coffee Jaytee (11 days ago)
I wanted to hang out with this guy but i cant engage him in our conversations (i might have even aided him in his sleep when we texted each other)
Eris Demollari (13 days ago)
U scream too much , ur boring
Someone Iusedtoknow (13 days ago)
I don't think that being BORED with someone -or saying you are boring to someone frankly like that- is a judgement that anyone has the right to give!! May be this person is too immature to see the bigger picture that God has drawn, so that this "boring" person has been put in to your life !! May be this "boring" person is stuck in life somewhere and trying to get out, or trying to secure a better place for himself, or doing something he's forced to do just to get out of a bigger problem, or trying to reach his life purpose & the dreams he believes he deserves, despite what every one else think they know about him, or handling too many things at the same time... Or may be he's being used !! or has been given a false sense of self & safety by his parents and needs help!! ... Sometimes a closer look on the circumstances of a person will make him more interesting... Everyone has a story behind him or her, every one is doing the best he/she can with what he has, at these special circumstances... 'Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about. Be kind. Always.' -- Brad Meltzer After all a confident smile can be the most important quality some one can wear to grab the attention of the person in front of him :) Here's some DRs advice though for every one https://psychcentral.com/blog/how-to-become-a-more-interesting-person/ & I like the 2 arms in the air victory sign too much btw :)
ivan rubio (15 days ago)
If you're watching this. You know yourself you're boring and that's sad.. Same for me.
Ar._. Vi (17 days ago)
This was the best tip in his channel his right lets get out there thnx dude🖤
T - Gay (21 days ago)
Barber's son Tommy got roasted XD
Fuzzy Psychology (22 days ago)
I’m a girl watching this to better help myself with my crush who’s a guy. You’re awesome and women watch your stuff too!
Professor Ankar (25 days ago)
I hate being boring when people are expecting you to be cool like your looks
The one guy that disrespect the is just different
Not attracted because we're too nice . Nice is boring.
Abhishek Kempanna (26 days ago)
bro you are an amazing person! Thanks for giving realistic suggestions.
FAnimaniac (27 days ago)
People aren't boring, we feel boring? Um, sorry but no this isn't true. I'm boring.
★ ilivill ★ (27 days ago)
God gave you them shoes to fit you So put 'em on and wear 'em Be yourself, man, be proud of who you are Even if it sounds corny Never let no one tell you you ain't beautiful
★ ilivill ★ (27 days ago)
​+Irbx Generated Name who else has said that? :D
Irbx Generated Name (27 days ago)
★ ilivill ★ Eminem reference?
Marmalade Stex1591 (30 days ago)
What I find Annoying & Dull is when You are having a good Multi Conversation & then "On No Anecdote Alert!", People can Kill the Tennis Rally Type Conversation by Introducing a Usually Over long Anecdote!.
A.M Klaklinski (1 month ago)
Alpha I need help im not smoooth!Or any tips lmfaoo
Gamer 27 (1 month ago)
This is the most boring video ever!I literally fell a sleep
F[] T[] (1 month ago)
Who else hangs out with the “cool kids” but is still just another person in the background of the group😪
Sam Burgess (1 month ago)
F[] T[] get some real close friends trust us bro
There is no charm equal to tenderness of heart. Jane Austen
Tropical Avocado (1 month ago)
Back at the old vids
eva rivera (1 month ago)
lol the person i want to talk to is an introvert and introverts hate small talks
eva rivera (1 month ago)
+armin harper i remember that time she still talks alot like nonstop now this past weeks she didnt talk,i guess shes just recharging,but it hurts now because she talks with her other friends not me
armin harper (1 month ago)
As an introvert i can assure u that being an introvert sucks in our world where everything is about showing off and acting in a dominants fashion or get crushed by everything and everyone.
mrsnoozer 887 (1 month ago)
I'm doing something new. Rn watching a dude tell me about how to be less boring
Damn, Alpha, you are right! Boring is state of mind! I always find myself when I'm bored that nothing is interesting. Brain is being slow, no good ideas. But when you kick ass of some selfish bullies or something like that , your mind pops with ideas.
Isabella Arroyo (1 month ago)
My friend called me boring and mean well I mean my Ex bff who I'd known since 1st garde and NOW I'm a junior in high school
Your mom Gee (1 month ago)
Im more obnoxious then funny
johnmeye (1 month ago)
Good stuff
HighFlyer098 (1 month ago)
whats whit his eye?
franc kie (1 month ago)
Thank u
The Raybans (1 month ago)
shut up nigga thats why you have a dot in your eye
Nexter5722 (1 month ago)
PEOPLE IN GENERAL HAVE NOTHING TO SAY ESPECIALLY WOMEN END OF STORY IF A WOMAN DOESNT LIKE YOU WHO GIVES A FUCK CHANCES ARE SHE HAS ZEROOOOOOOOOOOO TO OFFER YOU IN THE LONG RUN AND YOU WILL BE DOING MORE FOR HER THEN SHE WOULD EVER DO FOR YOU DONT WORRY IF SHE THINKS YOUR BORING NEXXXXXXXT !! The End
Dusk (1 month ago)
I got some hobbys to be less boring I got parkour And card trowing And knifetrowing That last one was a bit too dangerous
Anibal Osbaldo (1 month ago)
Yes it was.
Dusk (1 month ago)
Those 3 million people who watched this video wants more freinds
Bräñdí hïké (1 month ago)
u inspire me so much..jus wanna let you know dont I normally comment on youtube videos this means alot to me
Monfared Tina (1 month ago)
true
LitZy Wizzy (1 month ago)
Wow this videos boring
Aayush Singh (1 month ago)
2:01
fightnight14 (1 month ago)
If you find my being too nice "boring" then you're not for me. As simple as that
Daniel Andrei Rusu (2 months ago)
I totally disagree with Alpha M, in the beggining. The reason why a woman dumps you is because she thinks you are too nice/ a pussy and being too nice is an issue.
Jack Hamilton Morris (2 months ago)
2:10 and just like that my depression was cured
SWITCH TO PEACE (2 months ago)
Video starts at 2:01 Thank me later
Nick Britten (2 months ago)
Sorry, your video was too boring... only joking lol, it was good. A person should never take life too seriously though. A GSOH goes a long way in this world.
shartrez little (2 months ago)
I loved our advices and i love way you talk
james marez (2 months ago)
I honestly am struggling my girlfriend wants to talk face-to-face for 30 minutes and I don't know what to do
Jasper Zaan (2 months ago)
Do more
Altay Kızıltaç (2 months ago)
Which ads gonna pop up im waiting
Dhruv bahl (2 months ago)
1st video of him without sponcer . He didnt sell anything.
Exterior Shock (2 months ago)
I needed this. I have already screwed my life by not being social in my kid years
Autism (2 months ago)
Generally boring people are the same people who only eat vanilla ice cream, go to bed on time, wear turtle necks, have a daily schedule, bowl cuts, and know how to use chopsticks.
Akshar Patel (2 months ago)
self improvement is masturbation in Tyler we trust
Roldan Rosario (2 months ago)
Last part was dope.
6969696 subs challenge (2 months ago)
I just act out and be the class clown and a handful of girls like me bc of that
Tamer Gazawe (2 months ago)
great video.. i am a really nice positive person who likes to see everyone smilin' (by everyone i mean by whoever deserves it), no one might will believe this (if any1 made it till this far (👏thank you )) but i met my girlfriend on a game called "fortnite". we started speaking on discord, daily, and for hours... we improved and started calling... now we r slowly improving into face timing... but the sad thing is that i won't be able to meet her till years... and we both know that its hard for us.. really hard cuz who did this before!?!? how can we manage ourselves? once we started loving each other, we didn't know the obstacles that could face us.. one of them is that we can't be together soon... but we do love each other. this makes me wanna cry so bad... btw i think im getting boring.. i know i am... i need help😅 i will do anything for my girl😢 whoever made it this far into this comments, i seriously appreciate you. hope you have a great life and a bright future☺
Chris Eats Toast (3 months ago)
When ur trying to change the channel and accidentally fuck ur cat
ikaw nah (3 months ago)
our pldt connection sometimes is so boring. so slow.
*WE* are awesome *WE* are Amazing *We* are Venom
TheChosenOne (3 months ago)
Who will watch ur stuff if were not on the computer though ?
Joshgarcia Cariga (3 months ago)
you sir has thought me a lesson. tknk you so much man. also you look a lot like Rumlow in Captain America The winter soldier. :D
Michelle Sithole (3 months ago)
When your so bored and boring u just have to google "How to stop being boring" , the struggle us real fellas✊😝
Damo (3 months ago)
You're delusional you're not nice. "Boring is an epidemic" lol
Paper Boi (3 months ago)
I’m called a nice guy and fuck it
Margerette Shaina Cruz (3 months ago)
I can't believe this video is in my recommendation,, yt literally know what i feel
PerfectedToast (3 months ago)
Plenty of fish in the sea? Isn’t the sea full of sharks? Fake guppies? Greed? I hate that saying.
Apollo Marttinen (3 months ago)
There's a lot of fish in the sea, but you know what else there is? Trash. There's a lot of trash
Wanston Wanston Wans (3 months ago)
How to not be boring 1.watch alpha m youtube channel
Maddie's acount (3 months ago)
Whenever I stay at someone in particular they get bored and say "your boring I wish so and so was here" and it really hurts my feelings 😕 so I want to prove them wrong
Anshul Goswami (3 months ago)
Dear alpha I am so funny person, I realy cant control my this habit Plz give tips to control this
Черный бумер (3 months ago)
imagine having alpham as a father
Nawel Paparoti (3 months ago)
Tips on how to grab a business wisely..
Mustafa Kamal (3 months ago)
You are so fuckin awsome man!
Jœ Adzman (3 months ago)
Inspiration 💖
The Figsoledierz (3 months ago)
Amazing video
fastandfilthy (3 months ago)
this guy is looks like he would be casey neistats brother
ron smith (3 months ago)
I totally agree! To many people are stuck in the auto correct world. Engaging with others through conversation helps you become a better communicator and learning more about yourself. It’s fun to do and by stepping out of your comfort zone broadens your ability to grow!
Pragyan Thousen (3 months ago)
you r boring
Luxxias (3 months ago)
if you’re watching this video and thinking “wow im sad im watching a video of not being boring” this is alpha m. kiddos you’ll get a social advantage over everyone
IME BORINGLY INTERESTING COME AND LISTEN TO MY WAR HISTORY LOL
Dinesh Sokkam (3 months ago)
Love ya..😍👌👌
Manos Goulielmi (3 months ago)
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Rama S (3 months ago)
My mother fuckin dry convo It happened about 5 mins ago That’s how I ended up here Me: goooddd morning 💕 Idiot: hi Me: have any plans for today? Idiot: no ME: *triggered* I swear imma murder him if he keeps going. I mean.....he has depression..I don’t know if it has anythin to do with the dry ass texting :’) He should be fkng thanks full cuz I care about his ass I’m like he’s babysitting Except for I’m 1 year younger lol
Dat King (3 months ago)
Attraction is Key.... not from one side but from both. (I'm single)😭
Pewdiepie q (3 months ago)
i love your videos!! everytime i search stuff like this i see your videos and i watch them!
eating is gr8 (3 months ago)
4:12 You know alpha dude taking about shooting yourself and slitting your throat isnt funny and don't bring them up like that because there are people who do those stuff to them selves for serious reasons and what you did is just wrong your a hypocrite 😕😒😡
Queen Bitch (3 months ago)
It's ironic. I was up all night watching YouTube and this is the video that put me to sleep
DIESEL BOYS (3 months ago)
I do the same stuff. Right dirtbikes hunt then when the faggots in soccer think there more bad ass then me I beat the shit out of them. I currently have 7 red cards this season. My team play 27 games. I missed about 14 of hem cause of red cards. All the girls surround me. So it’s not about doing the same thing it’s about doing what makes you happy. And if you have passion then you can get the girls to like you
Andurox (3 months ago)
Video starts at 1:43
santhosh valiyakolleri (3 months ago)
Your are talent
Eduardo Santos (3 months ago)
After watching this video, I subscribed to your Chanel right away!
Elisha Rajesh Elisha R (3 months ago)
How to talk when we are bored
Elisha Rajesh Elisha R (3 months ago)
I am so bored that I am going sad
jonathan salazar (3 months ago)
Your videos are interesting :3
Vladimir Putin (3 months ago)
Hmm...i just feel so sad that watxhing how to be perfect brave boyfriend and not to be boring...why god....
Aka Semaun (3 months ago)
Directions unclear.. dick got stuck at ceiling fan
TCS PuLsE (4 months ago)
I feel bad for everyone her so sad Alexa play SWEET HOME ALABAMA

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