Transgender escorts Mia and Tashion battle with a very personal decision in this episode of Sex Map of Britain
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i rly thot that first tranny said, "i got a really big anus" i had to turn on subtitles =/ also wow says he is 8inches?...crazy how most guys would kill for that, and pay money on like penis pumps or pills hah, well as long as it isnt a pencil. ehh i wouldnt mind an extra inch but im happy 8) but then to go cut off the gift god gave u? uh oh i bet i crossed a line there hah...dont care. world is nuts nowadays
It is so sad. They haven't chosen what to be but people punishs them in many way.
In southamerica the only way for trans people to survive is prostitution too. It is horrible. How can society be so cruel?🤔😑😫😪
The older sister of Mia is the perfect older sister. I always wanted a sister, someone that can question me and be emotionally aggressive with me. The way she said "I don't care about your work, that's not the deep you... I don't think you're happy." 😭😭
I have a 20 yr old daughter and if she would of told me that she wants to change her sex or is bisexual or whatever it is she wanted to do, I’d support her completely. I’d be worried though because this world is cruel but I’d protect and fight for her. That what parents do, our job is to love & support even if we don’t fully agree with the decisions our kids make. If you don’t love your children who will? This is why so many seek love in the wrong places.
Runt suspects these people were disowned by family, abused by classmates, taunted and tortured ; Hurt by everyone!!
No wonder they roam the streets. What a sad life. I hope one day it all makes sense for them
Mental disorders are real and it’s clearly seen in there confusion. Having a penis means you are a male even if you think you are woman You will never be a true female because you will go to any extent to try to look like us. Purchasing hair, boobs and surgery makes you a plastic doll.
I'm living in the same situation as she is. Really sad how parents can go from being "supportive" to being an ass and hating you because you have a "evil spirit". And yes my parents are Christian's so of Course they force me to do all this christian stuff and I didn't really feel comfortable since I'm only a child and there was always people staring at me. but as soon as I came as trans towards my parents they started to lost their shit. considering that they didn't lost their shit when I told them that I didn't want to go to church, it was pretty emotionally and physically the worse thing I had to go through. I'm 17 literally living in a apartment complex while trying to apply for jobs in such so I can buy me stuff and or just pay the rent. But I feel for her.
how could you NOT see that these men are against nature's flow ? men are menand women are women what kind of a world is this ? so if I want to be a ferrari, I wear a ferrari's wheels and pretend to be normal ?!!
Mia id love to just take you out one night and have tons of fun without any sex whatsoever! I think you're gorgeous both outside and in. And would love to just chill and hang out. No expectations of any kind. Id love to date Mia.
It would mess you up mentally trust I had gotten fired at a young age should have never done that always felt manly but stuck with being a girl but I have no boobie sorry but I hated the bleeding it hurt too badly so I had it all removed young but I'm like the koolest girl friend ever I understand my man even if or if not he understands me lols so just be you weather you still have your dick and want to dress like a sexy girl you do you boo you don't have haters you have admires in denial
DON’T DO IT, TASHION 🛑!! A lot of men that have had the removal, REGRET it!! But, once it’s done, it can’t be undone. Please don’t do it 🤚🏽! You’re just fine, the way you are. You’re beautiful 🥰! Listen to your foster dad, he loves you 💗. I just fear that you will regret it later on. I’ve changed a lot from 20 yrs old, to now over 40. I’m not the same in how I think about life & myself. I’m very touched by your struggle & I care about you & your life. Blessings.💡🌈
MommahKat: I respect that, but I did watch a specific documentary (that I don’t recall the name of), where at least 2 ppl, a man & a woman, expressed deep regret for that decision. They were both past 50 yrs of age & had been living with their transitions for decades. Part of the reason for 1 of them, was the result of the surgery, itself. It left him scarred or marred, in some way. Which made it difficult for him to have intimate relations.
I know there is a process & I know every attempt is made in order to minimize any regret afterward. But for some (& that may be a small number of ppl🤷🏽♀️), there is deep & profound regret & there is no correction for them, which saddens me.
I’m happy that your decision was the right one for you & that you have no regrets. I saw Tashion’s sadness, too & my heart hurts for her. I only want her to be as sure as she can be. She is very young, only 20. Maybe I’m unusual, but things I thought I knew about myself at that age, changed as I aged, matured & experienced life & it’s harshness. But, if it is a process that takes yrs, then she WILL have the time to grow & mature during that journey & will, hopefully, know herself much better by the time it comes. Thx for reaching out. Blessings to you💋. 🌈
This entire thing about trangender folk "regretting" the transition is a myth. Trangender people like myself think about these things constantly and know what we want. We don't suddenly be like "oh shit i want a life changing surgery that will alter my body right now." Not only do we think about these sort of things for years ourselves but it is also something medical professionals force us to further think about as well. We know what we want, these decisions are not made lightly or out of no where. She is very obviously not happy and has explicitly said she thinks about this every day for a very very long time. As her father said she knows how she feels better than everyone.
We don't need u to care but the problem is u do care but in a negetive way u bully u rape u harass u call names u make people commit suicide u don't treat them equally this has to stop in order to stop lgbt community is forced.....where r ur comments when ur so called straight fellas don't let lgbt people love their lives
These are men not women.. They want to be women but they can't change that! Makeup, surgery and people calling them women when their men and vice versa won't change what they really are their just unhappy..
In Australia some of my TG friends opted for a new form of surgery, pills that reduce penis size so it becomes like a clitoris, then the scrotum is used to make the vagina, better than the old method of penile removal. The reason for this is if ever they wish to go back, they can. By stopping to take the pills that shrunk the penis in the first place. I am sure the UK would be up on this type of procedure now. Then there is no more switching the light bulb as was said. If later on that person decides to revert back, all they do is to stop taking the necessary hormones. Sounds like a far more sane approach than to have reassignment surgery which is permanent!
see if ppl who didnt understand stuff like that were like that guy & made an actual effort to educate themselves instead of families just kicking them out there would almost guaranteed be a lower suicide rate among the LGBTQ+ community... & i find it so sad that its her foster dad who was so compassionate but not her biological family who legit just gave up & disowned her.. & sadly a story that’s honestly all too common
These young guys if they had an understanding mother and father they wouldn't be doing this for a living. If I had been their parent I would had educate them and told them in order to fit in society they must be their original biological self during the day for a regular job then by night they can be themselves at least until they get a job that will accept them as who they are. You have to do what must be done to support yourself but for a decent job or go back to school but not selling your body. Education and support is what these poor young guys needed. I hope they find a friend that can show them another decent way to support themselves. You can't shove it in societies throat because they are not ready to accept it fully as they do to gay people. Remember gay people went through the same thing and It took years for society to accept them. It has to be baby steps just inch your way in so that eventually people will start accepting transgender people. Follow the steps on what gay people did to be accepted, protest if you feel you have been discriminated in your job. Don't just assume you don't have a voice because everyone has a voice stick together and grow together. That is how life works and they need to know this. Play your cards smart. Regular people by day and by night you can be yourself inch by inch and they'll come around but it will take some years not overnight. Also, take into consideration that most people feel it's a mental issue not normal so they refuse to accept this as normal because even doctors say it's a mental issue. In time people will accept in time but meantime don't sell yourself short use your brain not your body to survive.
I could not imagine turning my back on one of my children! As a mother my goal in life is to raise happy, loving, trustworthy, children who grow up to live a life that is fulfilling to them! If one of them said they were gay or trans it would never diminish my love and support for them. I just can’t see how a mother could turn her back on her child like that! You can see how deeply this has effected these poor women, they are so desperate for love they are selling their bodies for sex! 😢
Always love your kids no matter what some parents are just bloody heartless gay or transgender they are still your kids and you love and support them 😪mia love i just want to adopt you and have you in my family dear god hurt see that pain
That guy who enjoy his company IS NOT STRAIGHT he is LOW DOWN no straight guy hit another guy, they find it dirty and evil. Why is he hiding? Cos he knows it s embarrassing what he does; and his wife doesn t know.
so sad that they don't realize is having a vagina or a penis doesn't magically confer on you...happiness, acceptance or understanding. your life won't change even if you have the surgery. they need to think it over because they seem to like the attention they get (my money maker) even while it makes them unhappy.
+Honey I actually don't mind if they want to transition themselves into any forms.. but calling themselves just women is way overbroad. U can transition your private parts into Male or female but you shouldn't label yourself into one but to accept that u are both Male and female at the same time. Women don't act like that and their gestures are way tooooo exaggerating than normal women.. hence, they should call themselves transgender(both he and she).
+Rose mola Tbh, you just seem close-minded and not willing to even open yourself to different peoples lifestyles. People dont owe anything to their parents just cause they gave birth to them, as your parents could beat the shit out of you every day and that doesnt mean that you should be greatful. It's their bodies, and living as the sex they were born as can at times make them nearly kill themselves and no amount of "conversion therapy" will solve that
+Honey hun, I hope u realize that you do sound crazy.. and they behave way more exaggerating than normal women. It is kind of abnormal.. guys who are desperate to be women are unappreciative of what their mothers gave them.
+Rose mola it doesn't matter. Brain scans have shown that these women have the brain structure of a female brain. Also these women have the hormones of women. It can make a trans person feel like shit if you refuse to call them she just because you cant set aside the fact they're born a way....what does chromosome really mean on a day to day life when there's intersex people born as both? Call these women she, and if you're still doubting....then please do some research on how gender dysphoria works. Transgender people get murdered every day just because people wont accept them...for being who they are, so please accept that they're valid
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