The 2 funny things about the friend zone are:
1. It's usually the guy who places himself in the friend zone.
2. Most guys aren't even aware that they are doing it.
Here’s how it works…
If a woman is open to talking to a guy, but he is only being friendly and nice to her, then she’s naturally not going to have much of a sexual interest in him.
On the other hand, if the guy is focusing on making her feel sexually attracted and turned on, while also being friendly and being a good guy, then she is almost certainly going to have a sexual interest in him.
The funny thing is that so many guys friend zone themselves with women who would actually sleep with them and have a relationship with them.
The woman likes him as a person and he seems like a great guy, but the sexual spark just isn’t there.
So, when he goes to make a move on her, or when he asks her out, she says, “Sorry, I only see you as a friend” or, “Sorry, I’m not looking for a boyfriend right now.”
Then, if another guy comes along and uses what I call the “Attraction First” approach (which I teach in detail in my ebook The Flow if you’re interested), she immediately feels attracted him, wants to kiss him and have sex with him and they can then enjoy a relationship.
Meanwhile, the guy who friend zoned himself is thinking, “What just happened? I thought she wasn’t looking for a boyfriend?”
What happened is simple: The guy who used the Attraction First approach stood out from the crowd because unlike other guys who were too afraid to turn her on, he got right into it.
At the end of the day, the difference between a friendship and a sexual relationship between a man and a woman is sexual attraction and sex.
So, make sure that you make her feel that way about you and then get to it, rather than wasting months or years trying to build up a relationship via a friendship.
That can work, but it can also backfire if another guy comes along and attracts her.
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