Do Many Black Men have a Problem with White Men Dating Black Women in the USA?”
I believe white men fear what black men think about them dating black women. When I grew up, most of black and white interracial couples I seen were of a black man and a white woman. I would be annoyed and wonder why there weren’t any black woman/white man couples? Later I figured out that white guilt plays a lot on the white male psyche.
The Blackman and White liberals constantly tell us white men how bad our history is. White men are always reminded how black women were raped in the past by white men, every white man in America gets blamed for the death of Emit Till, we are over criticized for past KKK lynchings and slavery. And the list goes on and on. Oh that the Whiteman is the Devil and the Blackman is God. As I say a “white devil” is a “black god”. With all this, no wonder white men rarely ask black women out on dates.
I went to a predominately black high school that was a result of failed school integration. The white kids who could went to private school. Back in the 1960s the Government thought it could integrate two peoples that were separated for at least 400 years, it didn’t work. Anyway, at my school white girls were scarce, but there were a lot of pretty black girls there. (show year book - Nadia). It’s sad, but only one white boy has he picture in the year book. I would have gone to the dances the school had but I had the fear that I might get shot if I went. My parents wanted to keep me safe, and they weren’t keen on me dating black girls.
White Nationalism is primarily a white male phenomenon. Most white women don’t care about White Nationalism. White Nationalism prevents WM/BW relationships. Race Nationalism leaves many white men and black women single. On the other hand, 7% of married black men were married to white women, 13% of cohabiting black men lived with white women in 2010. Black men are the least nationalistic when it comes to dating outside their race. My question to black men is if black men date/marry/sleep with white women then why can’t white men date/marry/sleep with black women? Why the double standard? Oh, I doubt every white man down South who flies the confederate flag hates black people. White Nationalism is restrictive and is against the freedom of white men.
“Bed wenches” is a trendy term used by black men for black women who date white men. My question is what do we call white women who date black men? There are so many more of them. I mean what do we call the Kim Kardashian types of the world?
I would like to say to black women that dating a white man is a lateral move from a black man. Any perception of “moving up” by dating a white man is a false notion. Sarah Baartman who lived about 200 years ago was a famous black woman who lived in South Africa was promised to become wealthy if she went with a white man to Europe. When she got to Europe she was put in a circus show was told to grunt like an animal. It was a show that miseducated Europeans about Africans. Later Baartman turned to prostitution as her only means of survival in Europe. She later died after 4 miserable years in Europe. There were no noble white men around to save her or give her shelter or to send her back to her folks in Africa. Yes, while most white men are good, certain ones can be wicked. Also if you can’t seem to find a good black man, please don’t marry a white man as your second choice.
“Let me put this on record” as “Queen” Ifama (www.earthandoceandesigns.com)here on YouTube would say, she says “let me put this on record”. -- I’m saying white men can be every bit as violent as black men can be. One is no more violent that the other. However, black men shoot each other in the streets. They blame white men for bringing guns into their neighborhood. But again, why should they blame us for giving them guns? After all, there are white men who have whole arsenals of guns, yet they’re not killing each other in the streets. This gun violence puts fear in white people. Black men need to stop killing each other in the streets. In my opinion there should be white men driving into black neighborhoods to take women out on dinner dates and weekend getaways.
One more thing I’d like to say to black women especially those who live in black neighborhoods:
The reason why white men are not checking for you has nothing to do with you being fat, “ugly”, if you wear your hair natural or processed, if you’re dark skinned or light skinned, how big your butt is. It has nothing with the Whiteman’s notion that he may not want to have mixed kids. A lot of white men do want them. It has little to do with a “racial hierarchy”. I believe it has more to do with white men’s fear of black men. White men have been killed in the USA for dating a black woman. Yes, black lives matter but white lives matter too.